Why Couples Should Discuss Money Early, Per a Therapist Money is a sensitive topic for couples, often sparking stress or conflict. A Vivavoice Survey Institute barometer, cited in YouGov, reveals that 36% of couples split expenses 50/50, 24% contribute proportionally to income, 22% divide by expense type, and 14% rely on one partner. Couple therapist … Read more
What the Diddy Affair Reveals About Psychological Abuse and Control The Diddy Affair, involving allegations of psychological and sexual violence against Sean “Diddy” Combs, introduces a chilling concept: the “grip.” This insidious form of control, described by forensic psychologist Dr. Don Hughes, traps victims in cycles of dependency and fear. As a psychology professor with … Read more
5 Modern Threats to Romantic Relationships, Per a Psychologist Modern couples face unique challenges, from digital distractions to clashing values, that strain their bonds. Psychologist Albert Oduvol, in a Forbes interview and American Journal of Psychology study, identifies five key threats to romantic relationships in 2025. As a psychology professor with decades of expertise, I’ve … Read more
How Long Do Modern Relationships Last? A Neuro-Psychoanalyst’s Insights In 2025, the idea of love lasting “forever” is fading. Neuro-psychoanalyst Boris Cyrulnik, cited in Worldwide, notes young adults now prioritize intense, fleeting connections over lifelong commitments. A Copleo.care study reveals 60% of young couples split within two years. As a psychology professor with decades of … Read more
TikTok Trend Reveals Why Men Struggle with Close Friendships A heartwarming TikTok trend has men calling their male friends to simply say “good night,” sparking varied reactions from confusion to amusement. This viral challenge, highlighted in posts on X, underscores a deeper issue: societal norms often stifle emotional intimacy in male friendships. As a psychology … Read more
Why Calling Your Mother Daily Boosts Your Mental Health, Per Research A simple call to your mother can lift your mood as much as a hug, per a University of Wisconsin study. With Mother’s Day 2025 on May 25, it’s a perfect time to strengthen family ties. Harvard’s 85-year happiness study also shows quality relationships … Read more
Scandinavian Two-Duvet Trick: Save Your Sleep and Relationship Struggling to sleep next to your partner due to duvet wars or restless tossing? A 2017 Sleep Council report reveals 33% of people experience poor sleep regularly, with partner disturbances (25%) a key culprit. The Scandinavian two-duvet method, practiced for generations in Sweden, offers a simple solution: … Read more
One Phrase to Never Say in a Couple’s Argument: A Psychoanalyst’s Warning Arguments are a normal part of couple life, but certain words can turn a disagreement into a lasting wound. Psychoanalyst Christian Richomme warns that phrases like “I regret being with you” can shatter emotional security. As a psychology professor with decades of expertise, … Read more
What Women Don’t Tell Their Husbands: Unlocking Better Communication Many assume secrets in a marriage involve infidelity or hidden pasts, but everyday frustrations often go unspoken, especially among women. A 2025 Glow survey from France reveals that 75% of married women feel disturbed by their husbands, with 45% citing lack of domestic participation as a … Read more
Loud Looking: How Clear Intentions Can Help You Find Love Finding love can feel like navigating a maze, but a new trend called “loud looking” offers a refreshing approach. By clearly expressing your romantic intentions, as couple therapist Joy Burkener explains in HuffPost, you can attract aligned partners and avoid heartache. As a psychology professor … Read more