According to psychologist Eudes Semeria, the two pillars of a successful education
Our parenting is often put to the test. Between positive education and anti-positive education, we sometimes don’t know how to act, especially when we carry the weight of others’ gaze on our shoulders. However, when a child does not fit into “all” the boxes assigned to him, this look can be overwhelming: it is a mother or mother-in-law who never hesitates to say that she knows how to raise her children differently. How to enlarge. , She is still a teacher, who, being overwhelmed herself, will make clumsy comments about the student’s education…
However, being a parent involves doing your best most of the time and it is necessary to accept this. We become parents by growing in our relationship with each child and this relationship is the foundation of our children’s future. Psychologist Eudes Semeria, author of the book, To educate means to make people responsible. New keys to helping your baby grow well, In Addition, Albin Mitchell joins us on this parenting journey by providing new insights and solid advice. For them, the main thing is to help our children become responsible and push themselves to make them happy adults.
Key Takeaway: Helping our children become responsible and assertive
Eudes Semeria teaches us how to distance ourselves from and detach from some of the media taboos related to education: ,Helping the child to become responsible means teaching him to organize himself, to identify his place and his reference points in time, space, relationships, emotions. And self-affirmation and developing one’s values means developing the ability to become the “author” of one’s actions, one’s journey, one’s life.He writes in his book To educate means to make people responsible. The new key to helping your baby grow well.
For this psychologist, it will really be a question of supporting our children to achieve these two life objectives, to establish themselves and to assert themselves, which is what it takes for a child to “deploy his or her enormous potential”. The only fundamental psychological conditions to be capable are. , First it will be necessary to return to the understanding of the fundamental differences between the psychological ecosystems of children and parents, as Eudes Semeria writes, “The Upside Down World” Especially having a relationship against boundaries.
How to teach a child to be responsible?
Therefore the author believes that it is necessary to motivate every child to become responsible and insist on himself. To become truly responsible, the child must learn to “situate” himself in all the dimensions of his daily reality: to situate himself in space-time, but also in his relations with others and in his emotions. We, as parents, can support him through conversation and learning. According to this expert, a child who manages to locate himself in space by knowing his surroundings, his address, his city and knowing how to find his way there, will be better able to ,Knowing how to be present where we are instead of escape (refusing to control ourselves, running away) or dissociation (being there and somewhere else at the same time).
Similarly, for Eudes Semeria, knowing ,Recognize your place in relation to others and understand psychological issues; Knowing how to organize this space according to circumstances, and always in the direction of progressive empowerment, It is necessary for a child to be solid in his relationship not only with others, but also with loneliness. We can also help our children understand their emotions: this is another important issue according to the author, who explains that by teaching our children how to recognize their emotions, we allow them to be independent. That is why Eudes Semeria’s book is a real manual to lead our children towards this responsibility and self-affirmation: we can provide them with resources to understand boundaries, integrate good manners and interpersonal skills. In his book he proposes a series of concrete actions to pursue this journey with our children, the purpose of which he writes “Help them become adults, maybe even more responsible than us adults.” He invites us, for example, to return to his child and his past, to understand each other better, to write their life journey together, but avoiding some common mistakes, right Also to rewrite the bases of.
Find the book of Eudes Semeria To educate means to make people responsible. New keys to helping your baby grow well, Published by Albin Mitchell.