“Nice manipulators”: these signs to identify them

Beware of manipulation. As a reminder, this type of behavior has been described in a insidious and cowardic way to influence a person’s words, thoughts or actions by methods of toxic persuasion. This approach is often used by manipulations and/or alcoholic deformity in their relationships as a couple, family or friendly.

Essentially, the manipulation has dramatic consequences on the person who suffers in long -term: self -deficiency and drop in others into drop, self -irritation, isolation, etc. Among the most timid manipulation methods: Understand in “good man”, French “The Nice Boy”.

“Good boy” syndrome or subtle handling art

By adopting a gentle, condemnable, dear and philanthropic behavior, vicious manipulations are successful in establishing themselves as predators on their “hunting”, before revealing their real face. Clearly: They use a “love speed” out of interest, then twisted against a victim.

According to the site Medical selectionThose who analyzed a good boy’s syndrome, are used to manipulate others: “They are often known to go beyond their limits, which they want, as a final purpose, as a final purpose to get an appointment or sexual contact with a person who makes them interesting.

“Nice Boy” syndrome: those signals that must be careful

In those signs that indicate the behavior of false “good boys”, which should be careful, we find exclusively:

• The tendency to wait for something in return: the manipulator will get upset or will get into conflict if he finds that his “good” behavior has not been seen enough or not congratulated.
• The tendency to shout on all roofs that he is generous and kind: the manipulator will help everyone, of course, but reminding him of everyone who will be found.
• It is a tendency to believe that being good gives the right to romantic or sexual favor in turn.
• When their good behavior is ignored or not praised, the tendency to function passively.
• The tendency to lie or to tell half-incomplete people to try to make people happy.

If you notice any behavior on your partner, then, mistrust. For example, it is recommended to seek help from a professional/to get out of this type of relationship, or later, to recover.